Trigger warning: self-harm
“Can God restore shattered marriages?”
This was Lucire Barcinas’ question every night when she sees the empty side of their marriage bed.
Before tying the knot in 2000, Lucire asked his then-suitor Rodel countless times about his intentions to her.
“I grew up in a poor family where everyone is expected to work hard to provide for our daily needs. Saying ‘You like me,’ isn’t enough,” Lucire said as she stresses the importance of perseverance and commitment in a relationship.
After exchanging vows to each other, Lucire and Rodel’s honeymoon phase was filled with joy and intimacy.
But just when she thought marriage was a bed of roses, something unexpected happened.
Lucire’s picture of a perfect family was torn into pieces when she saw Rodel with another woman.
“He knew that he has a family to take care of,” Lucire said in reproach to her husband’s infidelity. “I’ve always worked tirelessly to help him provide for our child’s needs.”
Lucire’s struggles of a shattered marriage aren’t uncommon. Have you experienced a heartbreak so painful that the thought of restoration seemed impossible?
Lucire and Rodel decided to split up after 6 years of marriage. But being a solo parent to their two children wasn’t an easy feat for her.
Tired and hopeless, Lucire could only think of one “solution” to stop her agony—to end her and her children’s lives.
“With a knife in my hand, I thought of killing my children before myself,” Lucire recounted with tears.
A few minutes before she did the unthinkable, God stepped in.
Lucire was sitting on the edge of her bed, and the TV program that night was The 700 Club Asia.
Then she heard Peter Kairuz, exhorting, “You, who’s watching right now. You are on the edge of your bed, holding a knife and contemplating about committing suicide.”
She was startled by how accurate the statement was in her current situation.
“How did he know what I was about to do?” Lucire asked herself.
Peter then said, “The Lord wants to carry your problems. Leave all your burdens to Him. Make the Lord your Provider, and you will experience peace and satisfaction.”
After praying with the host, Lucire experienced the Lord’s comfort soothing her broken heart.
“The Lord still loves me and doesn’t give up on me even after I thought of taking my own life,” she realized.
That night, Lucire didn’t take her own life—she offered it to the Lord’s hands.
Since then, Lucire never stopped praying for her marriage to be restored.
After 4 years of wrestling in prayer, the Lord finally answered through a call from the one to whom she swore, ‘Till death do us part.’
“Rodel asked if we can start again as a family,” Lucire recalled. “I praise God for answering my heart’s desire.”
If God can mend Lucire’s broken heart and restore their marriage, He can also do the same to you!
The Lord’s faithfulness did not just end in reuniting their family. He even enabled them to start a mini salon business to help sustain their needs.
After everything that she went through, Lucire learned to trust God in every area of her life.
“I trust Him will all my heart. If He didn’t step in to comfort me that night, I wouldn’t be here to testify of His goodness and faithfulness.”
Trust God. Ask for His guidance. Never stop praying.
This is Lucire’s encouragement to those who are going through the same thing she has experienced.
“Always commit everything you do to the Lord. Without Him, we can’t do anything,” she shared.
Lucire’s story is a testament of God’s compassionate character described in Psalm 34:18, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed.”
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Anna Marie says:
In my real life im separated with my husband a long time ago 14 years ago because im a victim of batterred wife but if God will restore our marriage what can I do but to follow Jesus because that is the will of God but as of now I just want my children to be with me because they brainwash my children with my inlaws and and of course i want them to know Jesus as their Lord and aaviour
cbnasiaprayercenter says:
Hi Anna Marie, thank you for reaching out to us and we are so sorry to hear about what happened to you and we can’t imagine how hurting and difficult for you but rest assured that we are here to pray for your complete healing and for the restoration of your marriage. May God continue to give you peace and comfort especially during the most loneliest moment of your life. We will also pray for the salvation of your children and that they may encounter Jesus Christ in a very special way. Our God is a miracle working God and let’s not lose hope because He is the ministry of restoration and transforming lives. May you be sustained with His word from Isaiah 40:31 But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Please continue to connect with us, call our 24/7 hotline 8-737-0-700 or visit our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/CBNAsia/. You may also email us at [email protected]. Blessings!